What actually happens is the flow of Life.
Thatata means Suchness or Thusness.
Thatata is the way things are.
The natural law.

A Thatagata is someone who lives Thatata,
...who lives totally in the way things are.
...who lives in the fullness of this moment.
...who lives with total acceptance.

...a silent and blissful flower of love.

The sooner you are destined to understand this law of Thatata and apply it fully in your life, the sooner your separation and suffering will dissolve like dew drops in the morning sun.